D.: How to control the mind? ----
M.: Catch hold of the mind. ----
D.: How? ----
M.: What is mind? Find it out. It is only an aggregate of thoughts.
D.: How to root out sexual impulse?
M.: By rooting out the false idea of the body being Self. There is no sex in the Self.
D.: How to realise it?
M.: Because you think you are the body, you see another as the body.
Difference in sex arises. But you are not the body. Be the real Self. Then there is no sex.- Ramana Mahashi